How to Plan a Mob Wife Aesthetic Bachelorette Party: Ideas and Inspiration
One of the hottest trends for bachelorette parties is set to be the Mob Wife Aesthetic after its meteoric rise in popularity on TikTok. So if you’re a bride-to-be who’s looking to incorporate the allure of the mobster lifestyle into your bachelorette party, we’ve got you covered. Let’s dive into the details on how to create the perfect Mob Wife Bachelorette.

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What’s Included:
- Instructions and links to instructional blog posts and videos
- Buy the bride a drink round sticker
- Buy the bride a drink card
- Buy the bride a drink Instagram template
- Custom sign – 8 x 10 “
- Custom sign 16 x 20″
- Custom sign 18 x 24″
- Custom sign 24 x 36″
- Round favor sticker
- Rectangular sticker for mini wine bottle / favor bag
- Hangover Kit tag & label – US Letter
- Hangover Kit tag & Label – A4
- Scrunchie Tag
- Water bottle label
- Lanyard template
- 12 game bundle – US Letter
- 12 game bundle – A4
- 12 game bundle – half letter
- 12 game bundle – A5
- Cootie catcher drinking game – US Letter
- Cootie catcher drinking game – A4
- Board Game
- 5 x 7″ Printable Invitation & Itinerary
- Mobile Invitation & Itinerary
- Photo Mat template -US Letter
- Photo Mat template – A4
- Kiss the Miss Goodbye template – US Letter
- Kiss The Miss Goodbye template – A4
- Photo Props – A4
- Photo Props – US Letter
Setting the Budget and Date
First things first. Before diving into the planning process, it’s essential to determine the guest list, set a budget and establish the perfect date for your Mob Wife Bachelorette party. Consult with your closest girlfriends to ensure your chosen date doesn’t clash with any major events for them, and while it may be impossible to fix a date that suits everyone, at the very least you will want to ensure your nearest and dearest can attend.
It’s also important to be considerate of everyone’s budget and being mindful of how much your planned activities and accommodation will cost, while still going for your chosen vibe and aesthetic.
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To assist with the planning process, make sure you grab our free Bachelorette party planner to assist you in organizing your expenses and narrowing down the ideal date. See the details below to access our party planner.
Choosing the Location
To truly capture the essence of a Mob Wife theme, opt for a venue that exudes luxury and sophistication. Consider booking a sleek cocktail lounge, a private penthouse, or even a glamorous rooftop terrace.
For a more budget friendly option, transform your own space into a sophisticated speakeasy with dim lighting, plush furniture, and a well-stocked bar.
Invitation Ideas
Set the tone for your Mob Wife affair with stylish invitations that hint at the glamour to come. Design invitations inspired by vintage mafia movie posters or use black and gold color schemes to evoke a sense of mystery and elegance.
Don’t forget to include the dress code and any special instructions to get your guests excited!
Our themed Mob Wife Bachelorette party invitations are instant download Canva templates that you can edit completely for free. The template comes with 2 sizes – 5×7” for printing and a mobile size for sharing with your guests instantly.
Each size also comes with a one page digital itinerary so you can give your guests an at a glance overview of the whole weekend.
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Mob Wife Bachelorette Themed Decor
Create an atmosphere that transports your guests back in time to the era of mobsters and their glamorous counterparts.
Leopard print and red lipstick are the signature mob wife traits. Emulate this in your room decor with these red lip balloons. This leopard print disposable tableware will also create a mob wife aesthetic for your bachelorette party.


Welcome & Table Sign templates
Our Mob Wife Bachelorette Welcome sign bundle comes in 4 sizes from 24 x 36 to 8 x 10, making it perfect to edit for a variety of purposes. Create a welcome sign using the larger templates to greet your guests at the venue entrance, and use the smaller sign for buffet tables, games and whatever else you like! Simply edit for free in Canva.
Larger signs can be printed online or at your local print shop.
Water Bottle Labels
Keep your refreshments on theme with these custom editable water bottle labels. Simply edit the text in Canva to personalize for your event, then print and attach to water bottles. Not only great as a party favor or in a hangover kit, but with their theme cohesive colors they will also look great on the table as guests arrive.
Mini Wine Bottle Labels
Equally great as party favors on on the refreshments table, our rectangular mini wine bottle stickers will create a cohesive look to the mobster theme. They are available as part of the bundle.
Photo Props
Get your bachelorette party started with our collection of 30 Mob Wife Photo Props as you say Ciao to Single Life! Great for selfies and photobooths alike, our photo props are available to download instantly, so it’s ideal for a last minute edition to your Mob Wife Themed bachelorette party, hen party or bridal shower. Simply print, cut out and you’re ready to go!

Mob Wife Attire
Encourage your guests to embrace their inner mob wives with attire that exudes sophistication and drama. Think form-fitting dresses, fur stoles, wide-brimmed hats, and long gloves. Leopard print and red lipstick are also must-haves.

These leopard print sunglasses are a fun accessory to give to all your guests to ensure a cohesive look. Or kit out the whole crew with matching Married to the Mob t-shirts. For more decor and outfit inspiration, check out our Mob wife Bachelorette Amazon List.
Mob Wife Bachelorette Party Activities and Games
Keep the entertainment flowing with activities and games that will have your guests laughing and bonding throughout the night.
Drink or Dare Board Game
Take the games to the next level with this custom Mob Wife board game. Like all our digital products it is editable in Canva so you can change the rules to suit your party, including the Truth or Dare and “Drink if” cards! A popular item and ideal icebreaker.
Murder Mystery Night
A mob themed murder mystery night could be just the thing to fit your vibe. You could opt for an organised event with live actors in your area, or go for the DIY option with a murder mystery game night, like this Slaughter At The Speakeasy game on Etsy.
Casino Night
A casino night is also just the thing to embrace the mob wife aesthetic. Again, you could DIY this with a casino night kit like this, or hit up a casino for a night of high stakes fun in your mob wife attire.
Buy The Bride A Drink QR Codes
Great for sharing on social media or taking out with you on the town, our editable Buy The Bride a Drink Instragram story template is ideal for sharing on socials so far flung friends can contribute to the party fund.
All you need to do is add in your own Venmo, Paypal or other payment app QR code.
Wondering how you do that? Don’t worry, we’ve got all the steps broken down in this post: How to Create A Buy The Bride A Drink Custom QR code
As part of the bundle, we also have printable Buy The Bride A Drink stickers and cards to share on the night!
Mob Wife Bachelorette Game Bundle
For some affordable DIY fun in between your scheduled events, our signature Bachelorette Games Bundle is also available with a Mob Wife theme. Featuring 12 printable games with clean and dirty options, this is an ideal addition to your bachelorette weekend. What’s more, it’s digital, meaning that it is instantly available after purchase so is ideal for any last minute plans.
Update: Now also available in an editable Canva template so you can personalize the games even more! (sold separately)
What’s included:
- 1. Game instructions / Prep
- 2. Guest most likely to
- 3. How Old Was the Bride photo game
- 4. Scavenger Hunt
- 5. Would she rather…(clean)
- 6. Would she rather…(dirty)
- 7. 20 Questions about the Bride-to-be
- 8. What did the Groom Say? (Clean)
- 9. What did the Groom say? (Optional add on dirty questions)
- 10. Never or Ever (Clean) – with optional Never / Ever cards
- 11. Never or ever (Dirty)
- 12. Over or Under
- 13. Bride or Groom? -with optional Bride / Groom cards
- 14. Memory of the Bride to Be
Mob Wife Inspired Food and Drink Ideas
Indulge in delicious food and drinks that will transport your guests to a lavish mafia gathering. Serve classic Italian dishes like pasta, antipasti platters, and decadent desserts.
For the drinks, create a custom cocktail menu featuring iconic concoctions like The Godfather or The Black Widow. Cheers to a night of indulgence!
Mob Wife Bachelorette Party Favors
Custom Lanyards
Give your guests a fun welcome party favor at the beginning of the bachelorette weekend with these custom editable Mob Wife Lanyard templates! Edit for free in Canva to add your guests’ names, print and insert into vertical lanyard holders like these for a fun start to the festivities.
Send your guests off with stylish party favors that will remind them of the unforgettable Mob Wife themed night. Consider personalized mini bottles of Prosecco or spirits with personalized name labels, or these mob wife themed cups.
Scrunchie Tags
Got hangover hair but don’t care? These custom Mob Wife editable scrunchie templates are perfect and inexpensive party favors and are available within the bundle. Personalize for each guest, print onto thin cardstock and attach to scrunchies like these to give to guests. Perfect!
Party Favor Stickers
Ideal for attaching to mini bottles of fizz, favor bags and more, the bachelorette bundle contains rectangular and round favor stickers cohesive to our Mob Wife Bachelorette Party range.
Both sizes are optimized to fit Avery print to edge stickers and are compatible to use with the free Avery Design & Print software. For more details on this process, check out our dedicated post How to Customise a sticker using Avery Design & Print.
Hangover kit tags
Hangover kits are also a popular bachelorette party favor. These can be purchased ready made, or if you prefer to DIY they can be made up very easily. Our DIY hangover kit labels are the perfect way to keep the mob wife vibe of your theme for any favor bags or hangover kits.
Bachelorette Photo Mat Template
Create a perfect bachelorette keepsake for your bride-to-be with this custom editable Mob Wife bachelorette themed printable photo mat available as part of the bundle.
These photo mats are easily editable in Canva to personalize with your bride’s name and bachelorette party details. Print out the template and get all the guests to sign. Then after the bachelorette weekend, choose the best group photo to add to the template before framing and presenting to your bride-to-be as a treasure keepsake of the weekend.
Will You be planning a Mob Wife Bachelorette Party?
From setting the budget and date to choosing the perfect location, attire, and activities, every detail will contribute to an evening filled with glamor, excitement, and a touch of mystery, you’re now armed with all the information you need to plan an unforgettable Mob Wife themed bachelorette party.
So, gather your girls, channel your inner mob wives, and get ready for an unforgettable celebration!
Save money with the Mob Wife Bachelorette Bundle!
Is this the bachelorette theme for you? If so, be sure to check out our Mob Wife Bachelorette party bundle containing all our products featured in this post plus more to give you over 30 unique instant download products to complement your Bachelorette Party.
What’s Included:
- Instructions and links to instructional blog posts and videos
- Buy the bride a drink round sticker
- Buy the bride a drink card
- Buy the bride a drink Instagram template
- Custom sign – 8 x 10 “
- Custom sign 16 x 20″
- Custom sign 18 x 24″
- Custom sign 24 x 36″
- Round favor sticker
- Rectangular sticker for mini wine bottle / favor bag
- Hangover Kit tag & label – US Letter
- Hangover Kit tag & Label – A4
- Scrunchie Tag
- Water bottle label
- Lanyard template
- 12 game bundle – US Letter
- 12 game bundle – A4
- 12 game bundle – half letter
- 12 game bundle – A5
- Cootie catcher drinking game – US Letter
- Cootie catcher drinking game – A4
- Board Game
- 5 x 7″ Printable Invitation & Itinerary
- Mobile Invitation & Itinerary
- Photo Mat template -US Letter
- Photo Mat template – A4
- Kiss the Miss Goodbye template – US Letter
- Kiss The Miss Goodbye template – A4
- Photo Props – A4
- Photo Props – US Letter
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Melissa is an Educational Consultant in the UK with over 25 years teaching experience. Through her expertise in creating educational resources for children she opened her Etsy shop, Gin&Gemini, in 2022 and quickly expanded her offering into the party planning niche, offering a range of physical and digital products for children’s parties, family celebrations, holidays and the bachelorette / hen party niche. She lives on a farm with her husband, young daughter and cats.
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