The Best Soft Girl Era Bridal Shower Themes
Bridal showers are officially entering their soft girl era — and we are obsessed. Soft girls favor romantic palettes, cozy details, and effortlessly aesthetic vibes over louder color schemes, making them perfect for celebrating love in a way that’s both modern and timeless.
Whether you’re planning a relaxed brunch, a cozy afternoon with friends, or an elevated at-home celebration, these soft girl era bridal shower themes are full of charm, sweetness, and Instagram-worthy details.
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What Is the Soft Girl Aesthetic?
The soft girl aesthetic is all about gentle colors, romantic energy, and intentional details. Think blush pinks, butter yellows, sage greens, creams, and florals layered with cozy textures like linen, knits, and candlelight.
At its core, the soft girl era embraces comfort, nostalgia, and femininity — favoring heartfelt moments over flashy excess. For bridal showers, this aesthetic translates beautifully into themes that feel personal, dreamy, and effortlessly elegant.
In this blog post, we’ve put together the sweetest Bridal Shower and Bachelorette themes for brides to be in their Soft Girl Era. So sit back, grab a cup of your favourite herbal tea and get cosy!
She’s Fresh Off the Market

Perfect for a relaxed daytime shower, She’s Fresh Off the Market leans into farmer’s market charm and summery sweetness. Picture gingham tablecloths, fresh fruit displays, floral arrangements, and hand-written signage. This theme feels light, joyful, and welcoming — ideal for brides who love a laid-back but thoughtful celebration with plenty of fresh florals and seasonal treats.
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What’s Included:
- Instructions and links to instructional blog posts and videos
- Buy the bride a drink round sticker
- Buy the bride a drink card – Us Letter
- Buy the Bride a drink card – A4
- Buy the bride a drink Instagram template
- Custom sign – 8 x 10 “
- Custom sign 16 x 20″
- Custom sign 18 x 24″
- Custom sign 24 x 36″
- Round favor sticker
- Rectangular sticker for mini wine bottle / favor bag
- Hangover Kit tag & label – US Letter
- Hangover Kit tag & Label – A4
- Scrunchie Tag – US Letter
- Scrunchie Tag – A4
- Water bottle label – US Letter
- Water bottle label – A4
- Lanyard
- 12 game bundle – US Letter
- 12 game bundle – A4
- 12 game bundle – half letter
- 12 game bundle – A5
23.Cootie catcher drinking game – US Letter - Cootie catcher drinking game – A4
- Board Game
- 5 x 7″ Printable Invitation & Itinerary
- Mobile Invitation & Itinerary
- Photo Mat template -US Letter
- Photo Mat template – A4
- Kiss the Miss Goodbye template – US Letter
- Kiss The Miss Goodbye template – A4
- Photo Props
For even more market themed inspiration, check out our dedicated post How to Plan A Fresh Off The Market Bachelorette Party, or view our Off the Market Amazon Ideas List.
PJs and Prosecco

Cozy meets chic with a PJs and Prosecco bridal shower. This theme embraces softness in the most literal way, with matching pajama sets, plush textures, and sparkling drinks. Neutral tones, pastel accents, and candlelit tables create a relaxed yet elevated atmosphere, making it perfect for an intimate gathering where comfort is just as important as celebration.
For more ideas, visit our PJs and Prosecco Amazon Ideas List.
Love Is Brewing

For the bride who loves her coffee just as much as her prosecco, Love Is Brewing is a soft girl theme with a modern edge. Think creamy neutrals, warm browns, gold accents, and elegant glassware. An espresso martini bar adds a fun focal point, while soft florals and minimalist signage keep the vibe chic, cozy, and sophisticated.
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What’s Included:
- Instructions and links to instructional blog posts and videos
- Buy the bride a drink round sticker
- Buy the bride a drink card – Us Letter
- Buy the Bride a drink card – A4
- Buy the bride a drink Instagram template
- Custom sign – 8 x 10 “
- Custom sign 16 x 20″
- Custom sign 18 x 24″
- Custom sign 24 x 36″
- Round favor sticker
- Rectangular sticker for mini wine bottle / favor bag
- Hangover Kit tag & label – US Letter
- Hangover Kit tag & Label – A4
- Scrunchie Tag – US Letter
- Scrunchie Tag – A4
- Water bottle label – US Letter
- Water bottle label – A4
- Lanyard
- 12 game bundle – US Letter
- 12 game bundle – A4
- 12 game bundle – half letter
- 12 game bundle – A5
23.Cootie catcher drinking game – US Letter - Cootie catcher drinking game – A4
- Board Game
- 5 x 7″ Printable Invitation & Itinerary
- Mobile Invitation & Itinerary
- Photo Mat template -US Letter
- Photo Mat template – A4
- Kiss the Miss Goodbye template – US Letter
- Kiss The Miss Goodbye template – A4
- Photo Props
For even more espresso themed inspiration, check out our dedicated post How to plan a Love is Brewing Bachelorette Party , or view our Love is Brewing Amazon Ideas List.
She’s Tying the Knot

Simple, classic, and endlessly romantic, She’s Tying the Knot is a timeless soft girl bridal shower theme. Soft whites, blush tones, bows, pearls, and subtle knot details create an elegant backdrop that feels traditional without being stuffy. This theme works beautifully for brunches, garden parties, or intimate indoor celebrations.
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What’s Included:
- Instructions and links to instructional blog posts and videos
- Buy the bride a drink round sticker
- Buy the bride a drink card – Us Letter
- Buy the Bride a drink card – A4
- Buy the bride a drink Instagram template
- Custom sign – 8 x 10 “
- Custom sign 16 x 20″
- Custom sign 18 x 24″
- Custom sign 24 x 36″
- Round favor sticker
- Rectangular sticker for mini wine bottle / favor bag
- Hangover Kit tag & label – US Letter
- Hangover Kit tag & Label – A4
- Scrunchie Tag – US Letter
- Scrunchie Tag – A4
- Water bottle label – US Letter
- Water bottle label – A4
- Lanyard
- 12 game bundle – US Letter
- 12 game bundle – A4
- 12 game bundle – half letter
- 12 game bundle – A5
23.Cootie catcher drinking game – US Letter - Cootie catcher drinking game – A4
- Board Game
- 5 x 7″ Printable Invitation & Itinerary
- Mobile Invitation & Itinerary
- Photo Mat template -US Letter
- Photo Mat template – A4
- Kiss the Miss Goodbye template – US Letter
- Kiss The Miss Goodbye template – A4
- Photo Props
For even more bow themed inspiration, check out our dedicated post How to plan a She’s Tying The Knot Bachelorette Party, or view our She’s Tying the Knot Amazon Ideas List.
She’s the Cherry on Top

Sweet and playful, She’s the Cherry on Top adds a pop of whimsy to the soft girl aesthetic. Cherry motifs paired with soft pinks, reds, and creamy whites feel nostalgic and charming without being overpowering. This theme is perfect for dessert-focused showers or brides who love a fun, feminine twist on classic romance.
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Is this the bachelorette theme for you? If so, be sure to check out our She’s The Cherry On Top Bachelorette party bundle containing all our products featured in this post plus more to give you over 30 instant download products to complement your Bachelorette Party.
What’s Included:
- Instructions and links to instructional blog posts and videos
- Buy the bride a drink round sticker
- Buy the bride a drink card – Us Letter
- Buy the Bride a drink card – A4
- Buy the bride a drink Instagram template
- Custom sign – 8 x 10 “
- Custom sign 16 x 20″
- Custom sign 18 x 24″
- Custom sign 24 x 36″
- Round favor sticker
- Rectangular sticker for mini wine bottle / favor bag
- Hangover Kit tag & label – US Letter
- Hangover Kit tag & Label – A4
- Scrunchie Tag – US Letter
- Scrunchie Tag – A4
- Water bottle label – US Letter
- Water bottle label – A4
- Lanyard
- 12 game bundle – US Letter
- 12 game bundle – A4
- 12 game bundle – half letter
- 12 game bundle – A5
23.Cootie catcher drinking game – US Letter - Cootie catcher drinking game – A4
- Board Game
- 5 x 7″ Printable Invitation & Itinerary
- Mobile Invitation & Itinerary
- Photo Mat template -US Letter
- Photo Mat template – A4
- Kiss the Miss Goodbye template – US Letter
- Kiss The Miss Goodbye template – A4
- Photo Props
For even more cherry themed inspiration, check out our dedicated post How To Plan A She’s The Cherry On Top Bachelorette Party, or view our She’s The Cherry on Top Amazon Ideas List.
Written in the Stars

Dreamy and celestial, Written in the Stars brings astrology-inspired romance into the soft girl era. Soft blues, silvers, and gold tones mixed with star and moon motifs create a magical atmosphere. This theme feels intimate and meaningful, ideal for brides who love astrology, fate, and the idea that their love story was always meant to be.
For more inspiration, check out our Written in the Stars Bridal Shower Amazon Ideas List.
She Found Her Main Squeeze

Bright yet gentle, She Found Her Main Squeeze blends citrus charm with soft girl sweetness. Muted yellows, creams, and the bright blues of italian tiles paired with lemons and delicate florals make this theme feel fresh and joyful. It’s perfect for spring or summer showers, offering a cheerful yet relaxed vibe that feels effortlessly romantic.
For more inspiration, check out our She Found Her Main Squeeze Amazon Ideas List.
That’s Amore

Inspired by Italian romance and la dolce vita, That’s Amore is warm, charming, and deeply feminine. Soft reds, blush tones, olive branches and candlelit tables create an inviting, intimate feel. This theme works beautifully for long lunches, alfresco gatherings, or any bridal shower meant to feel cozy, romantic, and full of heart.
Save money with the That’s Amore Bundle
Is this the bachelorette theme for you? If so, be sure to check out our That’s Amore Bachelorette party bundle containing all our products featured in this post plus more to give you over 30 unique instant download products to complement your Bachelorette Party.
What’s Included:
- Instructions and links to instructional blog posts and videos
- Buy the bride a drink round sticker
- Buy the bride a drink card
- Buy the bride a drink Instagram template
- Custom sign – 8 x 10 “
- Custom sign 16 x 20″
- Custom sign 18 x 24″
- Custom sign 24 x 36″
- Round favor sticker
- Rectangular sticker for mini wine bottle / favor bag
- Hangover Kit tag & label – US Letter
- Hangover Kit tag & Label – A4
- Scrunchie Tag
- Water bottle label
- Lanyard template
- 12 game bundle – US Letter
- 12 game bundle – A4
- 12 game bundle – half letter
- 12 game bundle – A5
- Cootie catcher drinking game – US Letter
- Cootie catcher drinking game – A4
- Board Game
- 5 x 7″ Printable Invitation & Itinerary
- Mobile Invitation & Itinerary
- Photo Mat template -US Letter
- Photo Mat template – A4
- Kiss the Miss Goodbye template – US Letter
- Kiss The Miss Goodbye template – A4
- Photo Props – A4
- Photo Props – US Letter
For even more Italian themed inspiration, check out our dedicated post How to Plan a That’s Amore bachelorette party, or view our That’s Amore Amazon Ideas List.
Love Is in Bloom

Floral-forward and endlessly romantic, Love Is in Bloom embraces the soft girl aesthetic through lush arrangements, pastel palettes, and garden-inspired details. Whether hosted indoors or outdoors, this theme feels timeless and graceful, making it ideal for brides who love classic romance with a gentle, modern touch.
For more inspiration, check out our Love in Bloom Amazon Ideas List.
Bride to Bee

The Bride Too Bee / She Found Her Honey theme is sweet, whimsical, and undeniably soft girl. Honey tones, soft yellows, florals, and delicate bee motifs create a cheerful yet gentle aesthetic. This theme feels playful without being juvenile, making it perfect for springtime showers filled with warmth and joy.
For more inspiration, check out our Bride to Bee Amazon Ideas List.
Bride on Cloud 9

Ethereal and dreamy, Bride on Cloud 9 is all about soft textures, airy colors, and floating details. Think whites, creams, pale blues, and soft metallics layered with tulle, clouds, and candlelight. This theme creates a peaceful, almost fairytale-like atmosphere that feels perfect for celebrating love in its purest form.
For more inspiration, check out our Bride on Cloud 9 Amazon Ideas List.
A Lifetime of Butterflies

Symbolizing transformation and new beginnings, A Lifetime of Butterflies is delicate, meaningful, and beautifully feminine. Soft pastels, butterfly accents, and floral details create a romantic and sentimental setting. This theme is ideal for brides who love symbolism and thoughtful touches woven into their celebration.
For more inspiration, check out our Lifetime of Butterflies Amazon Ideas List.
Which is your Favorite Soft Girl Bridal Shower Theme?
Soft girl era bridal showers are all about celebrating love in a way that feels warm, intentional, and beautifully understated. Whether you lean toward cozy and intimate, fresh and floral, or dreamy and romantic, these themes offer something for every bride who values softness, femininity, and meaningful moments.
No matter which theme you choose, the key is creating a space that feels personal, comforting, and full of love — because that’s what the soft girl era is truly all about.
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