How to plan a Killer Bride or Die Bachelorette Party  

If you and your bach squad are looking for something edgy, fun, and totally unforgettable, then a Bride or Die themed bachelorette party might just be the perfect choice!

In this blog post, we’ll guide you through all the steps to plan a killer Bride or Die bachelorette party that will leave the bride-to-be and her crew with memories to last a lifetime.

What is the Bride or Die Bachelorette theme?

The Bride or Die theme’s signature color is black and all things gothic are celebrated in the forms of skulls and roses. It’s a tongue in cheek way of mourning the death of the bride-to-be’s single life with black dresses, sunglasses and slogans like RIP To Her Last Name.

If you’re looking for a “witchy” or Halloween specific version of the Bride or Die theme, then check out this post about planning a Halloween Themed Bachelorette Party.

Bride or Die Slogans and Hashtag Ideas

• RIP Single Life
• RIP To Her Last Name
• Drop dead gorgeous
• Death of a Bachelorette
• Till Death Do Us Party

Already know this is the theme for you?

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Setting the budget and date

The first step in planning any bachelorette party is to set a budget and choose a date. This will help you determine what activities and venues are within your price range and ensure that everyone can make it on the chosen date.

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Choosing the location

Once you have determined your budget and date, it’s time to choose the perfect location for your Bride or Die bachelorette party. This isn’t a theme that is strongly linked to a specific location, so consider the bride’s interests.

The key is to choose a location that allows you to create an atmosphere of fun and excitement while encompassing the Bride or Die theme.

Invitation Ideas

Now that you have the basics sorted out, it’s time to send out those invitations! Get creative with your invites by incorporating elements of the Bride or Die theme. You could design digital invitations with bold typography and images of skulls or roses.

Alternatively, consider sending physical invitations in the form of mini black coffins or personalized handcuffs.

For a hassle-free option, check out our Bride or Die invitations which are editable in Canva for free. Including a printable 5×7″ invitation template and a mobile phone itinerary, you have the choice whether to send physical or digital invitations, or even both! This design also comes with two color options so you can choose between black and white.

Bride or Die Themed Decor

To create a truly immersive Bride or Die experience, you’ll want to pay attention to the decor. Think black and silver color schemes, skull motifs, and plenty of edgy details. Hang up banners with phrases like Bride or Die or Til Death Do Us Party. 

We’ve handpicked a selection of Bride or Die party decor available on Amazon so be sure to check out the full list below.

Welcome & Table Sign templates

Our Bride or Die Welcome sign Canva template comes in 4 sizes from 24 x 36″ to 8 x 10″, making it perfect to edit for a variety of purposes. Create a welcome sign using the larger templates to greet your guests at the venue entrance, and use the smaller sign for buffet tables, games and whatever else you like!

Larger signs can be printed online or at your local print shop.

Water Bottle Labels

Keep your refreshments on theme with these Bride or Die custom editable water bottle labels. Simply edit the text in Canva to personalize for your event, then print and attach to water bottles. Not only great as a party favor or in a hangover kit, but with their theme cohesive colors they will also look great on the table as guests arrive.

Mini Wine Bottle Labels

Equally great as party favors on on the refreshments table, our rectangular mini wine bottle stickers will create a cohesive look to the Bride or Die theme and are available inside the bundle.

Photo Props

Get the festivities started with our collection of 30 Bride or Die themed photo props as you celebrate the Brides last tour!

Great for selfies and photobooths alike, our Bride or die photo props are available to download instantly, so it’s ideal for a last minute edition to your Bride or Die Themed bachelorette party, hen party or bridal shower. Simply print, cut out and you’re ready to go!

Buy The Bride A Drink QR Codes

Great for sharing on social media or taking out with you on the town, our editable Bride or Die Buy The Bride a Drink Instagram story template is ideal for getting both the bachelorette guests and followers to Venmo you a drink!

All you need to do is add in your own Venmo, Paypal or other payment app QR code.

Wondering how the heck you do that? Don’t worry, we’ve got all the steps broken down in this post: How to Create A Buy The Bride A Drink Custom QR code.

Also availble in the bundle are Buy The Bride a Drink stickers and printable cards that you can add a payment code into in the same way.

Bride or Die Themed Attire

No Bride or Die bachelorette party is complete without matching attire for the bride tribe. Consider getting custom t-shirts such as these Tarot card shirts, or slogans like Till Death Do Us Party or Bride or Die Crew.

The key is to have fun with it and let your personalities shine through. Don’t forget to take plenty of group photos to capture these special moments!

Bride or Die Bachelorette Activities and Games

Keep the energy high by planning a variety of activities and games that align with the Bride or Die theme. 

Drink or Dare Board Game

Take the games to the next level with this custom Bride or Die board game. Like all our digital products it is editable in Canva so you can change the rules to suit your party, including the Truth or Dare and “Drink if” cards! A popular item and ideal icebreaker.

Bride or Die Bachelorette Games

For some affordable DIY fun in between your scheduled events, our signature Bachelorette Games Bundle is also available with a Bride or Die theme. Featuring 12 printable games with clean and dirty options, this is an ideal addition to your bachelorette weekend. What’s more, it’s digital, meaning that it is instantly available after purchase so is ideal for any last minute plans.

Update: Now also available as an editable Canva template (sold separately) so you can customise the games!

What’s included:

• 1. Game instructions / Prep
• 2. Guest most likely to
• 3. How Old Was the Bride photo game
• 4. Scavenger Hunt
• 5. Would she rather…(clean)
• 6. Would she rather…(dirty)
• 7. 20 Questions about the Bride-to-be
• 8. What did the Groom Say? (Clean)
• 9. What did the Groom say? (Optional add on dirty questions)
• 10. Never or Ever (Clean) – with optional Never / Ever cards
• 11. Never or ever (Dirty)
• 12. Over or Under
• 13. Bride or Groom? -with optional Bride / Groom cards
• 14. Memory of the Bride to Be

Food and Drink Ideas

When it comes to food and drinks, think outside the box and offer unique options that match the theme. Serve cocktails with names like Death by Martini or Bride’s Last Sip. Create a grazing table filled with charcuterie, cheeses, and dark chocolate desserts. 

For a fun twist, consider hiring a food truck that specializes in gourmet burgers or tacos. Don’t forget to accommodate any dietary restrictions and have non-alcoholic options available for those who prefer not to drink.

Bride or Die Party Favors

To thank your guests for being part of the Bride or Die celebration, provide them with party favors that they can take home as mementos.

Hangover Kits

Consider putting together custom hangover kits filled with mini bottles of water, pain relievers, and eye masks.

Our set of two hangover gift tags can be customized how you wish while still being cohesive to the Bride or Die theme. Add to favor bags, makeup bags and more! Available within the bundle.

Check out our post How to Create a DIY Bachelorette Hangover Kit for more details.

Scrunchie Tags

Include scrunchies with custom scrunchie tags personalised for each member of your crew with our editable scrunchie tags available as part of the Bride or Die bundle.

Lanyards

Personalized lanyards are also a great bachelorette party favor, and fit in perfectly with the Bride or Die theme. Our Bride or Die lanyard templates can be edited in Canva for free so you can personalize for every member of the crew!

Bachelorette Photo Mat Template

Finally on our list, a gift for the bride-to-be! Create a perfect bachelorette keepsake for your bride-to-be with this custom editable Bride or Die bachelorette themed printable photo mat.

These photo mats are easily editable in Canva to personalize with your bride’s name and bachelorette party details. Print out the template and get all the guests to sign.

Then after the bachelorette weekend, choose the best group photo to add to the template before framing and presenting to your bride-to-be as a treasured keepsake of the weekend. Simple and very affordable but an amazing gift nonetheless!

Party Favor Stickers

Ideal for attaching to mini bottles of fizz, favor bags and more, the Bride or Die bachelorette bundle contains rectangular and round favor stickers cohesive to our Bride or Die Bachelorette Party range.

Both sizes are optimized to fit Avery print to edge stickers and are compatible to use with the free Avery Design & Print software. For more details on this process, check out our dedicated post How to Customise a sticker using Avery Design & Print.

Save Money, Buy the Bride or Die Party Bundle!

If you’re planning a Bride or Die Bachelorette Party, check out our complete Bride or Die bundle of instant download products! With many of these templates editable for free in Canva you can customize for every member of your crew! Check out all the details below:

Will you be planning a Bride or Die themed bachelorette party?

Planning a Bride or Die themed bachelorette party is all about embracing your gothic side and creating an experience that will bond the future wedding guests and create last memories.

Remember to have fun throughout the planning process and let your creativity shine. With our tips and suggestions, you’re well on your way to throwing an epic Bride or Die bachelorette party that the bride-to-be will never forget!

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